How not to say the wrong thing http://articles.latimes.com/2013/apr/07/opinion/la-oe-0407-silk-ring-theory-20130407 It works in all kinds of crises – medical, legal, even existential. It’s the ‘Ring Theory’ of kvetching. The first rule is comfort in, dump out. April 07, 2013|Susan Silk and Barry Goldman (Illustration by Wes Bausmith…) When Susan had breast cancer, we heard a lot of…