Advance Care Directives Bill 2012

Advance Care Directives Bill 2012 The Advance Care Directives Bill 2012 was introduced into the South Australian Parliament on 17 October 2012. The Bill, Minister’s second reading speech and Explanatory Guide can be found here. The purpose of the bill The purpose of the Bill is to simplify advance decision-making by replacing the current Enduring…

Memories of Tewantin

Friendship, food, wine, fun Living well in the slow lane Tastes of paradise             Valerie and John Flanked by boisterous Molly Socks pulled off last night!                 Too much wine but, Oh Such delicious tasting food Cooked with tools and love        …

Two sides of the dementia coin

In conversations this week, whilst holidaying with a dear friend in Queensland, it has been unsettling to hear my friend say she can see my decline, however subtle it is, and no matter how much I attempt to hide it.  We have known each other long enough, and well enough for her to be honest,…

Dementia and communication

As the symptoms of dementia seem to be progressing, the one thing that seems significant to me right now is my inability to keep up with a conversation, especially over the telephone as the visual clues are missing. It is easy for me to say yes or no reasonably appropriately, but not so easy to…

Resilience and the human spirit

The resilience of the human spirit is something I would love to study further, and it always amazes me how people withstand multiple crisis or illnesses and get back up with a fighting spirit. I’ve volunteered for organisations helping people who have endured extreme, and multiple losses and traumas, people who could well choose to…

Lori La Bey and Richard Taylor

Thinking of Richard Taylor and the hideous onslaught on his body as he is facing chemotherapy, radiotherapy and then radical surgery for oesophageal cancer, one wonders how much the human body and spirit can withstand. He is not alone around the world, as the wonderful Lori La Bey has proven with her tribute radio show…

Another poem…

My unseen disappearing world By Kate Swaffer © 2012   Days alone with dementia Laughter and love Tragedy and sadness Memory loss Playing cards alone Grief, tears, shock Humiliation and stigma Dancing Daring Keeping secrets Engagement and inspiration Hysterical and life changing Moments lost in time   Note: I somehow lost a whole blog today,…

Sharing and caring

When our children are small, we constantly suggest they share their toys with their friends… we say or imply sharing is caring. My interpretation of the Maria Montessori method of teaching children through play was sharing should not be forced, but would happen naturally when the child felt safe and that they can trust the…

Stolen Dreams

Stolen Dreams by Kate Swaffer © stolen dreams smashed against a solid brick wall disappearing into nothingness feeling cheated     angry     deeply sad the six words that created my new world what bad luck   you have dementia this train is racing down a one way lane no chance to get off      no chance of anyone getting…

Welcome 2013

Happy New Year. I wish you every Blessing and a year full of peace and personal growth. Let the road be long and winding, with enough bumps to get us to sit up and take notice of how good life is once we recover! Whatever you get up to this year, do it with gusto and passion,…

Reflections on 2012

On the 1st of January this year, I commenced the challenge set by WordPress to bloggers around the world called Kick Off 2012 with Project 366. It began as a new page on this site called ‘Conversations with Kate’, a chat titled Day 1 of Project 366 and so on. It evolved like a small child grows,…

Finding my way

A friend and newish follower of my Daily Digest has been lovingly overprotective of me the last few weeks since reading my struggles (thanks Deb xxx), kindly averting too much ‘volunteering’ work from coming my way from one organisation that has my heart forever. It reminded me of my husband the first couple of years after the…