To be negative… or positive! That is the question I ask myself, especially when the going gets tough. By nature I am a happy and positive person, but when the road gets rough is when all those good genes could fail. The alternative to being positive is ugly, not one I  often choose. How can I remain positive and happy I sometimes ask myself, especially when faced with things such as dementia? It is then I answer my question with a question. Why would I choose negative and miserable over positive and happy? For me, the answer is obvious. Go forth, be happy, love deeply, laugh often and live with urgency, before the emergency.