My husband talks about how having dementia in our life as it like having a ‘threesome’, and how the three of us simply have to co-exist! He talks about how it is not an ideal situation as most people know two’s company and three is more often than not a crowd. He said earlier this year, “it’s important to remember that the person he loves is not causing these changes, it is the dementia. And it is not my fault that I have dementia. But that he’s not overly fond of our new lodger!” I liken it to being a bit like having The Three Stooges live in our home!!