To my husband

Happy wedding anniversary To the love of my life My best friend My Back Up Brain The reason I work so hard To stay afloat by paddling You are my rock And the army beside me Watching and protecting Yet allowing me to shine in my own light We are aware of each others shadows…

Working in Kiama

For six months now, I have been visiting and working in the Kiama area as part of the contracted consultancy role I have until this week with Alzheimer’s Australia, on the dementia friendly community Pilot Project with the local Kiama council, Alzheimer’s Australia and the University of Wollongong. The main challenge has been to involve and…

Love, Life, Loss, a roller-coaster of poetry

For anyone who wants a copy of my book And wants to support Alzheimer’s Australia South Australia I have donated a carton of my books to them Now available in their online store To assist them with their important work Not just dementia research but Advocating for and supporting People with dementia and our families…

Spreading our wings

Prescribed Disengagement Puts people with dementia into a bubble One of disablement and disempowerment Sending us to aged care and death No words of life as we once knew it Nor signs it will ever return Not a glimpse of well being ahead Now is the time Like a beautiful butterfly Emerging from its cocoon  That…

Transforming Health Summit SA

It was a long and rather tedious day last Friday. I attended a SA Health “Transforming Health Summit”, and not only was there nothing about dementia, when I and others brought it up, people like the Honourable Jack Snelling M.P. (Minister for Health, Minister for Mental Health and Substance Abuse) and the appointed Clinical Ambassador…

Loneliness

A sense of loneliness So deep It takes my breath away Reminding me of those departed Lingering inside my heart Lost to the stigma of dementia Tales of despair Whisperings of days gone by Deteriorating abilities Sadness sitting just inside my soul Yearning for my loss of self Footnote: Through this blog, and other social…

Who’s ‘Living with dementia’

Spot the person with dementia… So many people are living with dementia though we can look the same as those others supporting us and caring for us not living with it but living alongside those of us diagnosed with dementia. No-one would dare to say they were living with cancer or HIV Aids unless they were diagnosed…