Love and letting go

As we sit and watch The one we love in the last stages of dying The hardest thing to say is “It is ok to let go” Let go and move on Find your freedom in the next world I will be here You will be there But you will never be forgotten Take your last breath…

Sit with me a while longer, by Michael A Horvich (2013)

Some time ago, I became friends online with Michael Horvich, and this poem not only moved me to tears, it helped me see the role of the family care partner differently, as if somehow it had softened my edges. I have been reading his poems again today, after learning the news of his partner Gregory’s imminent…

More on dementia and love

On Day 7 of Dementia Awareness Month this year, I wrote a blog called  Dementia and love, and there was a lot of feedback on it. One reader, who is a woman in Nigeria doing amazing things for people with dementia there, made this wonderful suggestion in her comments to the blog yesterday, which I re-shared on Facebook…

Bethanie Education Medallion #DAM2015 Day 23

It is Day 23 of Dementia Awareness Month 2015 #DAM2015, and I had promised a few of my personal and online friends about the outcome of flying to Perth for lunch today, I am proud to announce I won an award today, the Bethanie Medallion, for my service to the dementia and aged care sector. This year, they opened it up…