Wear sunscreen…

It seems I need to hear this more often lately… so here it is again on my blog! Not meant to bore you, but rather, I really hope this song inspires you to be you, as it does me, and to live every single moment of every single day as if it matters, and as…

Between the Pages: Concussions in Football Players

Thanks Jami, for bringing this very important issue to my attention, which I am sharing with my blog readers and friends, especially those of children paying any tackle sport. The stats re numbers, i.e. professional vs children, was indeed staggering. My youngest son still plays football, and has had a number of concussions, mild and…

To my friends

It has been a tough week on a deeply personal level, and my friends have always filled the gaps left by family, sometimes by actively offering to become my sister/mother/brother/and as always, you become even better friends than you before… thank you. I love you all xox

On being an orphan

Sadness on the inside Smothering your soul Like particles of red dirty dust Layers of wretchedness Melancholy Despondency Desolation Dejection Mistrust Unable to show love Or Showing too much love Loss Grief Desperate for any form Of unconditional love Unexpected feelings of yearning Wishing it was not so

Does a broken heart ever mend?

It would seem to me The answer to that Depends completely On who breaks your heart An old lover One gets over The death of a partner One eventually recovers Th loss of friends After a diagnosis of dementia I’m not so sure… The death of a child For many, never But the broken heart Caused…

Lessons in life

One last time Lessons on surviving judgement Barely surviving alcoholism No longer surviving untreated meant illness A family who put the dis in dysfunction Unacknowledged old wounds Holding up a good life Bashing up current relationships Treatment worthy of the enemy Not someone they claim to love Judging others as they are Too afraid to look in the mirror Terrified of…

What is a good death?

On the topic of dementia and a good death, I support a person’s right to be able to choose euthanasia. However, even if legislation was passed here to support it, the way it is currently being advocated for, would mean people with dementia would have to ‘euthanise’ themselves when they are still with legal capacity, which…

Love, Life, Loss, a roller-coaster of poetry

For anyone who wants a copy of my book And wants to support Alzheimer’s Australia South Australia I have donated a carton of my books to them Now available in their online store To assist them with their important work Not just dementia research but Advocating for and supporting People with dementia and our families…

My experience with Bristol Who’s Who

Recently I had an interesting chat with a man phoning from New York City, working for Bristol Who’s Who. I contacted the organisation via a notice about them on LinkedIn, simply to be listed as a University of Wollongong Alumni member. That was all. Maybe I’m a bit dumb, as I had not heard of them!!! Well, it’s not happening, as…

The spring in my step

Relax It’s almost the weekend It’s not snowing here But hey, it must be somewhere! My feet are tired My lungs have been singing The spring is in my step My feet are just not willing to participate! Dashing Is Completely Out of the question!

An Australian Poem (author unknown)

They were funny looking buildings, that were once a way of life, If you couldn’t sprint the distance, then you really were in strife. They were nailed, they were wired, but were mostly falling down, There was one in every back yard, outside every house, in every town. They were given many names, some were…

Life after writing a book

  Life after writing a book Relaxed beyond my wildest memories Wondering what to do Find a branch and just hang out Sleep Read a book Even though I may not remember it Watch an Opera Sing a song With a voice That perhaps makes others cringe Hum to Elvis Or maybe Write another book!