Loss, Grief and BPSD

Over the years since my own diagnosis, I have talked and written about the profound and complicated loss and grief which I continue to experience following the diagnosis of dementia. To be honest, the phrase, “I didn’t get to say goodbye”, is just as applicable to losing some part of my functioning, capacity, including being…

What’s unfriendly about advocacy and dementia-friendly?

Here are the links to three podcasts hosted by ‘With All Due Respect‘ I was interviewed for last year, which I probably forgot to share here. My beliefs about the dementia-friendly iniatives is that they are unfriendly to people with dementia, and wporse, are a waste of time and money; money that should be used…

People with Dementia: longing for ‘home’

The blog post explores the Welsh concept of “Hiraeth,” representing a deep longing for home, often felt by individuals with dementia in institutional settings. It critiques how the healthcare system misinterprets their distress as clinical issues instead of a natural response to loss and displacement, emphasizing the need for compassionate care and community integration.

The continuing pathologisation of dementia

When people are still being medicated for understandable reactions to a terminal diagnosis of any type of dementia, for responses primarily due to the lack of post diagnostic care, the grief and trauma of the diagnosis, the ongoing neglect, complex and constant grief, over, or under-stimulation, being incarcerated and segregated in a ‘secure dementia unit’,…

Who is responsible for exclusion?

Yes, just as it is usually non-Indigenous people who are responsible for racism, people without dementia, and even some people with dementia, are partly responsible for stigma, discrimination, the continuance of rights violations, and the systemic injustices and exclusion many are still experiencing. The dementia friendly initiatives have done nothing to improve things either, other…

Scholactivism, Dementia and an Existential Crisis

Following on from my recent short blog about the book and mini-series, Dopesick, I am writing about having an existential crisis… For many years, and with each new year now, I’ve had an increasing feeling of pessimism about the lack of change from my activism, or the advocacy and activism of so many others, especially…

Dementia Advocacy: Is It Broken?

It’s great to see new dementia advocates inspired and empowered to start speaking up for change. What’s disturbing though, is that after more than four decades of it, ‘we’ are asking for exactly the same things as the pioneer dementia advocates including Christine Bryden and James McKillop (who were both diagnosed in the last century),…

Dementia Awareness: A Waste of Time?

My inner rage, sometimes quiet, sometimes more obvious and loud – against the persistent status quo, particularly in the field of dementia ‘care’ is not meant to be personal, not to any individual, or to any organisation. I am well aware and often say in presentations that almost everyone I know goes to work (paid…

It’s time to unlock the doors

Two webinars on deinstitutionalisation: “Ordinary lives” Todays post is to highlight two important webinars being hosted by the European Network on Independent Living, coming up soon. The United Nations Deinstitutionalisation Guidelines released in 2022 refer to all people with disabilties, which therefore includes people living with dementia. People with dementia are not only locked inside…

New Book – Ageing of the Oppressed: A Pandemic of Intersecting Injustice

For some, reading my chapter in this book may feel like I’m ripping off a Band-Aid, or worse. It may feel like a betrayal. It may sound ‘angry’. There will definitely be moments of discomfort, denial, and even disbelief that a ‘retired’ dementia self-advocate could, and would dare to say many of the things I’ve…

Abuse, Power and Control

‘Ellen Louise Pence (April 15, 1948 – January 6, 2012) was an American scholar and a social activist. She co-founded the Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, an inter-agency collaboration model used in all 50 states in the U.S. and over 17 countries. A leader in both the battered women’s movement and the emerging field of institutional ethnography, she was the recipient of numerous awards…

Long Term Care: Places of Detention

Long term care (LTC), is one term used to describe congregate living style settings including nursing homes and residential aged care institutions; most countries have their preferred term, as do academic journals. As a humanitarian and campaigner for civil rights and social justice, I’m becoming increasingly aware, and more educated on why these locked assisted…

Spaced Repetition and BPSD

The value of spaced repetition, which wikipedia says is “an evidence-based learning technique that is usually performed with flashcards” is perhaps why I actively repeat myself a lot. Perhaps my blog and the BanBPSD posts can be considered flashcards! Evidence suggests that after about six repititions, knowledge starts to become embedded. It feels like the right…