The real tragedy of dementia

The last few months have been a very difficult time for me; physically, emotionally and also in terms of managing the disabilities of dementia, and due to this it has been very necessary for me to get support to proactively manage the stress. Since February, I have also consciously kept myself much busier than usual to avoid thinking…

“I’ve changed my mind” by George Rook

Chris Roberts posted a blog by George Rook, and both of these men live as well as is humanly possible, with a diagnosis of dementia. Thanks Chris for reminding me via the post on your site, to post it here. George Rook, thank you for writing “I’ve changed my mind”. It is a wonderful blog, and saves…

Kindness is far more important…

Last year, I was asked to answer some questions for a website featuring Change agent stories, which has now changed its focus. They invited people to write stories whom they considered to be ‘Radicals or Change Agents’. The questions took me a long time to answer, and even now, I am not sure if I have answered them well,…

Preferring not to go home and die…

Living beyond dementia Is tough And sometimes even fun But many days are torture Days spent finding files Many more losing them Only functioning at all Because of the support of our BUB’s More than occasionally We want to give up paddling… And, it seems, one or two might prefer I just stayed home and died… Finding…