Does university = success?

Yearning for university Almost from my first day at school Nursing came long instead Long before that became a degree Like an escape And still no university for me And in spite of this  Many other things were achieved and accomplished Life now with dementia, and Incredibly, university has become part of my life At least for…

On dementia, disAbility and writing my book

Jessica Kingsley Publishers in the UK sent me a few questions to answer about what is was like when first diagnosed with dementia, how dementia has impacted my life and family, and on living beyond dementia, continuing to study and much more… you can hear my response here. My book “What the hell happened to…

‘Happy’ Australia Day

Passionate speech by indigenous journalist Stan Grant on being Australian. This is compelling viewing, and every Australian should watch it. On Australia Day, it is even more significant and important, as for many Indigenous Australians, they see little reason to be celebrating…

My office has younger onset dementia

There was a time when my house was immaculate, the pillowslips AND the sheets were ironed, and in fact, ironing as a topic here has been a bit hit in the past! Everything in the cupboards were aligned, all clothing in the wardrobe and drawers were ironed perfectly and in neat piles, or hanging with matching coat…

The pain and beauty of grief

I wrote the following about grief on Facebook recently, and feel that grief can be the biggest, sometimes the darkest times of our lives, and yet, very often the most beautiful part as well. “Grief is that devastatingly painful but incredible and beautiful expression of your love … It’s ok and it’s yours and don’t let anyone…

The sweetness of life

Life Is for living For dreaming And for learning Life Is for crying For healing And for moving on Life Is for remembering Sweet times And for family and friends Life With fading memories Is a roller coaster of loss and grief Life With dementia Can still be fun

Review of my book

Many other authors have advised me never to read a review of my book as it can be hurtful when they are negative, However, I have gotten used to so much criticism here, and even hatred and vitriol on Facebook (last year, which is now over thanks to the ability to block the offenders) I…

Introducing my book

I have made a voice recording to introduce my book for it’s release today, and have added the file and the notes here.   Hi this is Kate Swaffer from Adelaide in Australia here, speaking to you on the day my first dementia book comes out. Although I’ve not yet seen a physical copy of…